So I've been meaning to write this post for a while now. I've been uber-busy with work and dealing with other things. So please accept my apology. One day last week I was asked a question by one of my friends. She posted the question on my wall, which was the part that caught me off guard. If you're on my facebook, then you already know that I need my wall empty, and if not.... The only thing on there are my status'/twitter updates.
Which is better? Finding true love or focusing on your grind?
(again... I'm not sure if that was the way she originally worded it, because after I replied, I deleted it off my wall =/ )
Something along those lines anyways...
So how about it... Which is better? Focusing on love, or focusing on your hustle/grind/career?
Uh, personally, I love working on me. Something I can look at in the future and say, "damn! I did this... I did it all on my own, and I did it to be where I am now". I don't think I can look at a successful relationship and have the same feelings/emotions. Relationships are important, but my career is a bit more precious. Like I told Tiff.
" Hmm I suppose it just depends on whats going on in your life. Are you a person who lives for someones touch; their love, their everything. Meaning the good and all the bad.! Or are you in a time; where you are so driven by your goals that... you love working, building your career and still studying to improve all at the same time
I think both offer a lot of pro's but cons as well. To each their own I guess!
You know me; I love love.. I love being in love, but honestly I have no time for it. & sometimes I think to myself 'like really dude. WTF! I'm freakin lonely' but at the same time. I make my money and count it & smile at the end of the night. & I'm fine. ---- I guess, that's just an evaluation everyone makes for themselves. "
Let me know how you feel about this... Agree? Disagree? Have your own opinions? Let me hear it.
Thursday, October 29, 2009
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I rather focus on my schooling/work.
ReplyDeleteHaving a relationship right now (or meeting different girls), is not going to help me get my G.P.A to a 4.0 or pay my bills.
I'm not gunna look for it -Let it find me...When the time is right.
I totally feel you. I'm so focused on me ; I dont have the time to even devote any of my time to a relationship. So even if it found me.... it would have to wait.
ReplyDeleteOnce your happy/content with ur "career" then eventually ull attract or be attracted to "the one" and it should happen naturally. Its true everybody needs somebody sometimes but overall, people need to focus on themself cuz thats the only thing u can change.
ReplyDelete<3 989 thnx for your insight
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